A couple of weeks ago we took a little break. The first adults-only break since my daughter was born. For that reason, we decided to do something that was quite close to home. I am still was quite nervous about being far away from her and I didn’t want to go abroad because of her seizures. So I figured that we should stay near London and a small train journey away. Ideally, a train journey that wouldn’t be too expensive and that we could go on the day without price difference. Since we’re based in South London, we chose to go to the New Forest.

I had a goal to be as offline as possible. I still posted some photos online and checked messages. But I was mostly offline without doom scrolling. And, it was great!!

We don’t have a car or drive, so we took the train. And to save some money, we split our stays between two places. The first few days in a pub and then ending the week in a spa hotel. Normally pub hotels are cheaper however they get a bit louder in the evening probably from Wednesday until Sunday. So we stayed from Monday until Wednesday in a room above a pub and it was lovely. From Wednesday until Friday, we stayed in a spa hotel. We were so lucky because, as anyone who's been living in the UK knows, up until then, it was basically raining every day. And it rained on the days we booked the spa hotel.

The first stop was Lyndhurst. We took the train to Brokenhurst and from there a short taxi taxi ride. Lovely town. We went to the local museum, which was super cute. I didn’t look up a single thing beforehand - I am the opposite of a type A holiday person. I’ve mentioned before that these days I’m quite interested in textile crafts and it was super interesting to see sections in that visitor centre that included a lot of embroidery and textile art featuring the forest and nature of it.

I spent a lot of time studying this frame because it used so many different styles, fabrics and scraps in different techniques. And it was deeply, deeply satisfying. And I took a lot from it.

We had fantastic meals and short walks on the first day. And of course, we saw many horses. It was tempting but I followed the rules and didn’t touch them. And we mostly settled in the main town to scout pubs.

The following day we rented a bike, and this was my favorite day. We spent basically 6 hours cycling through the north West of the forest. I had so much fun. I caught myself smiling when cycling down hills. I downloaded an app recommended by the bike rental shop and it would point out spots to stop by. So of course, I took a photo with the Portuguese Fireplace Memorial because you can get a girl out of Portugal but you don't get the Portuguese out of her lol.

We stopped for lunch in a little cafe that had a little garden to walk around and probably one of the best cakes I’ve ever had. This one had donkeys instead of horses and so I couldn’t help but take a few photos of them.

But of course, no big bike ride goes without little hiccups. Eventually a puncture happened at the end of the day when we were heading back to return the bikes. We were 2 miles out of the bike rental shop and it was the first time I ever used the 3 words app since installing it years ago! Previously we had been stuck in a bog (because we trusted the app rather than the physical signs in the park 🤦🏻‍♀️) so we couldn’t find the puncture to use the puncture kit. Anyway, two miles wasn’t the worst. It didn’t ruin our mood. During the day I was just cycling super fast, which was so exciting. I never do these things. Predictably, my bum was super sore, and there’s no chance I would be able to cycle the next day.

So day two was a perfect cycling out day, which ended with a wonderful meal, a little walk around the charity shops. Then the following day, we went to Leamington via train for a little seaside view, walk, check the little town and art museum.

I found a crafts charity shop which was immensely exciting. I wanted to spend hours there. I did buy a few things, mostly threads which came out quite cheap.

Middle of the week and it was time to check-in at the spa hotel. Again, surrounded by wonderful walk options with so many horses. I was still quite sore so it was perfect to physically relax, have great meals and spend a lot of time playing UNO, reading books, walking about, and resting. It was great.

I barely checked my phone. I didn’t check the news. I was so happy.

It really is the stupid phone ruining everything isn’t it? The stupid screens of doom and the stupidity of the world isn’t it?

Anyway, I hope to do more things like this soon. One thing I’ve realised last year is that I was so overwhelmed with my house move and renovation, then writing a talk that I forgot to take holidays. And that’s something I don’t want to repeat this year so we’ve been more proactive at booking time off even if it’s just a stay at home and just enjoy those days offline. That’s it.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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It's been a minute, eh?

I've finally had the motivation to spend the last few days migrating back to Eleventy. I'm now well hooked into the Vercel ecosystem as well as a result. Not happy about that, but trade-offs! You always make them.

For someone who gets overwhelmed easily with the scale of tasks like these, Claude has been an immense help in making this move happen.

I'm most excited for the fact that I've been able to migrate the "likes" feature, including current counts.

Builds take less than 30 seconds, images are still served in AVIF/WEBP formats, and I have a couple of convenience bash scripts to create a new article post + rename files to reflect the final post title before publishing.

I'm relatively happy with the design, this is something that had been sitting in my drafts for over 2 years. Might tinker with it over the next few months to be a little more expressive, but for now, this works. 🙂

Equally excited to keep up with web standards and such in a low-stakes environment. 🐢

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This lecture was given by Tomas Furmark, Professor of Psychology at Uppsala University. My rough notes are below. Note that all of this, including the question/answer sections, is paraphrased - not exact quotes.